Thursday, August 09, 2007

South Africa - Sunday (PM)

OK...last evening in South Africa. We all loaded up on a bus and went back Ushaka for a dinner in the aquarium.

Sitting on the bus with Jessie...

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Eating with Jessie... (Can you tell that I love being with Jessie?!?!)

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We had some enjoyed some wonderful traditional music. Jessie and I even got a chance to dance...I couldn't dance and take a shot of myself at the same time :)

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Here is some other traditional music we enjoyed (actually a little earlier in the week but I loved the photo and wanted to include it)

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Monday morning after breakfast... me and the girls that I hung with this week ...

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Thanks for going with me on my trip to South Africa!


South Africa - Sunday (AM)

We spent the morning hanging out at a flea market!

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South Africa is such a beautiful place!

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I had an excellent slushy to cool me off.

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Here is the walkway separating the flea market and the beach.

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On my way across the beach to put my feet in the Indian Ocean!

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I tried to catch the water washing over my feet but I could not quite get the timing right

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Some people did some amazing artwork with sand and water.

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Jessie and I on the beach...in the hot...hot...sun :)

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Wednesday, August 08, 2007

WFMW: Tips for More Energy

People are always asking me how do I come to have so much energy. Some of it is my personality and my desire to "get-it-all-done". Some of it is the fact that I'm a perfectionist and sometimes I just can't stop. But, some of it is directly related to some choices I make. I'd like to share those today.

Please know that I am not a health practitioner or expert. I'm just an ordinary wifey and homeschooling mama, who is juggling a million different plates, and who has learned a few tips and tricks to being at my best.

OK...first the obvious things (scroll down if you want to get to the weird ones):

SLEEP - As a person who views sleep as something that I HAVE to do, this one has been a hard one for me to master. I choose many nights to stay up late due to blogging projects or tasks that I want to finish. Then I do the crash and burn in an effort to catch up. This is NOT the way to stay healthy. I don't get sick very often but the times that I do, it has been immediately after days of wearing my body down and not resting to rebuild my energy, immunity, and strength. I can function on 5-6 hours of sleep but eventually it will do me in. The sleep I need to consistently feel energized and rested is about 7-8 hours.

Now...let me say this. I'm not naturally a napper. It makes me feel lazy and I can't seem to justify just laying down in the middle of the day. BUT IT WORKS WONDERS. As busy mothers, we have people pulling on us all day long. Nobody I know in corporate America puts in 17-18 hour days on a regular like we do. We have to build in some R&R or we WILL crash and burn.

From one recovering Martha to another...GET SOME REST!

DRINK WATER - I read somewhere that most people are so consistently dehydrated that they have gotten used to living that way. That fogged brain feeling, the sluggish clogged feeling, and the tension headaches that won't go away, are all symptoms of dehydration. There is no feeling quite like the one I get from having had enough water. For my weight, I should drink 12 glasses, which is 3 quarts or 3/4 of a gallons or about 3 liters of water a day. That's ALOT of water. When I compare what I normally take in when I'm not purposefully drinking lots of water, it's no wonder that I'm dehydrated.

To figure out how much water you need, take your weight in pounds and divide by 2. Then divide by 8 (oz glasses). This will tell you how much you should be drinking. Try it for a few days. Find a glass or container where you can easily keep up with how much you have downed. I promise you will notice a difference.

EAT LIGHT - If you didn't know already, food weighs us down. I'm not going to give a lesson in nutrition here. Just take this as a friendly reminder to eat less and to eat well. Your body will thank you. Don't you know how much energy it takes for your body to break down certain foods? Make better choices and you'll have that energy for other things....like thinking.

EXERCISE - JUST DO IT!...even when you don't feel like it. You don't have to do anything strenuous or super difficult. Just get moving. Not only is there a physical increase in energy, you will also feel empowered for exercising the discipline to make yourself do something you didn't feel like doing.

OK...here are the ones that aren't so obvious...

TAKE PRENATALS (pregnant or not)
- I got this advice from a doctor when I was around 25 years old (I'm 35 now) and it was the best advice I've ever received for optimizing my general health aside from good nutrition and exercise. I started out taking prescription prenatals until I discovered from my midwife (uh...yes...I've used a midwife :) that I'd be better off with whole food supplements vs. synthetic. I have taken Rainbow Light Complete Prenatal for about five years now. I feel the difference big time when I don't take it. I ran out just before our road trip so you know I can't wait to get home to buy some more :)

LIQUID CHLOROPHYLL - I had been hearing from numerous sources that it helped with energy. I decided to bite the bullet when an online buddy pregnant with #10 recommended it. She seemed so full of energy all the time! It is virtually tasteless (unless you get mint flavor). You can drink it straight or mix it in another drink. I use the Nature's Sunshine brand

DRINK KOMBUCHA - now remember. I'm not an expert. I'm just sharing the things that I've used that have been followed by a noticeable difference in the way my body feels. I reiterate that point because this tip is a weird one. I have only tried G.T.'s Kombucha and not only does it help me in the energy department but it also keeps my body more alkaline (vs. acidic and sugary). As a person who struggles with candida issues, in a matter of one day, I can tell the difference in my body. It does have a strong taste, but you can definitely get used to it.

If you can't get your hands on Kombucha. Try some Apple Cider Vinegar (organic is best). You can water it down and sweeten with honey if it is just too much for you. If you don't have that, then try just plain old white vinegar. Fermented foods are good for our systems.

GET INSPIRED - Sometimes the lows that we feel are due to emotional lows. Figure out what moves you and do it, view it, or listen to it. For me, music has the power to put me in a good mood when nothing else will do the trick. Just the right CD can motivate me to clean my house, dance while cooking dinner, or finish that last five minutes on the tread mill. Think about what you consider to be beautiful and keep it in plain view. Discover what you can do that makes you feel powerful and alive and make it a habit to put that in your daily routine.

I hope you can benefit from at least one of my tips - even it it served only to remind you of something you know. Remember we are all on a journey, do what you can as you can and know that "Rome wasn't built in a day". Just keep doing what you know to do and the rest will follow. It's all about the journey.

Be sure to check out Rocks in My Dryer for more Works-for-Me Wednesday tips.

Weight Loss On the Road...

...is impossible.

Weight maintenance while on the road is laughable.

All I will say is that I'm dreading my impending meeting with Mr. Scale...

(sigh)

Road Trip - Day 7 (Sandy Cove)

Another day of our family vacation but our last day in Two Mama's house for awhile. We spent the morning packing up and getting ready to leave. Kano sat patiently waiting for his great-grandmother to feed him his applesauce.

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Saying goodbye to my grandparent's home and front porch. We won't see this house for a while after today.


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We got on the road and headed to our next stop...Sandy Cove. My Dad has to speak and my brother has to sing. Two Daddy and Two Mama are coming too. We will just continue the family fun in another location!

Here are all the boys (my sons and their cousins) at a stop for lunch...you guessed it...McDonald's. After watching Supersize Me, it gets harder and harder to eat here...But man, oh man, I have internet access here! If they can't bait you with the fries, they'll bait you with the WiFi!

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As soon as we arrived, we hurried and changed to get into the pool.

Uh oh! Sumo, what's wrong!?!?!

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Oh...I see...you were just a little out of your comfort zone :)

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Here's everyone in the pool, swimming with Uncle J.C. The only person missing is Sumo. But we already know where he is...

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Oh, no! Another unhappy boy? Kano looks to be out of his comfort zone too.
...Uncle J.C., what are you up to?

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Ooooooooh...

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After we dried and redressed cleaned up, we found a cool spot to hang out and do...umm...stuff boys like to do. (You have no idea how nervous I was taking this picture. I can just see the headlines now..."Four year old boy cracks his head wide open on jagged rocks while his mother watches through the lens of her camera"...!)

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The boys all got a chance then to go hang out with their own kind other kids while their parents got a much needed break. After we picked them up, we all headed to the snack shop for a treat...

ICE CREAM!

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My Nonny loves me even when I'm sticky...

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Can you tell we had a long day? Oh the things you can do to a child who is knocked out!

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Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Pictures and Blog

Could some of you comment and tell me how the volume of pictures I've been posting lately have affected your viewing of the blog? Just want to check in and see if the photos is making pulling up the blog a chore...

Road Trip - Day 6 (A Family Day)

Today we just went down to Baltimore Harbor so the girls could shop and the boys could blow off some steam. All the way to Baltimore for a mall...

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Afterwards we hung out while the boys (and cousins) fed/chased birds. All the way to Baltimore to chase birds.... :)

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Trying to make that flat penny come out...

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We left the harbor and drove to my visit my Aunt Bernice. My mother's family is from Guyana, South America so we are ALWAYS good for traditional Caribbean fare. Aunt B took us to get some GOOD FOOD.

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My parents had not yet been to Aunt Bernice's new home or office and none of us had seen Clarise's home either (she's a first time condo owner and we are so proud of her :). So...we went on a tour :)

Aunt B's home

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Beautiful neighborhood...beautiful porch...

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Clarise and "Uncle Tony"

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Me and "Reesie"

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All that visiting gave everyone an appetite! Back to my grandparent's home for some more CRABS!

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Winding down with Poppy!

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Road Trip - Day 5 (PM - Eating Crabs)

After our wonderful morning together, we went back to my grandmother's house to blog rest. Later that evening, we all met up again. If you are at all familiar with Maryland cuisine...you will understand why Sunday night we celebrated being together as a family with CRABS!

You either love them or you hate them...


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The boys enjoyed pounding on the crabs...then they ate hot dots!

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We at a banquet hall owned by Mr. Resnick. My dad worked for him when he was a teenager. He started out working in the kitchen and earned enough respect and trust to assist them personally before graduating from high school and going to college. Mr. & Mrs. Resnick sat and ate with us, telling us many neat stories about my Dad. They also were so complimentary, saying that they knew when they met him as a teenager that he was different and would go on to make an impact with his life. Life is something...it really comes full circle. It was a privilege to meet them and spend time getting to know them.


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My brother Anthony flew in that evening and came straight here. We had some crabs waiting for him!

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The boys ate and then literally ran around in circles for hours...talk about delirious!

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